Today’s find: Stoned

Jacob finds himself between a rock and a soft place in the reading we heard at Mass today. (Genesis 28: 10-22)

It’s one of my favorite passages in Genesis: Jacob, on the lam…having just conspired with his mother to cheat his twin brother, Esau, out of the inheritance…comes to a place called Haran and decides it’s a great place to get stoned.

Literally, in this case (‘cause you know sometimes words have two meanings’): ‘Taking one of the stones…he put it under his head and lay down to sleep at that spot.’

Sounds like a rather uncomfortable choice to me. But while he’s resting on that rock, Jacob is blessed with a vision in the night. He has a dream featuring a well-traveled stairway to heaven. And the Lord makes an appearance, too—not at the top of the stairway, where we might expect to find the Holy One—but standing right beside him. ‘Know that I am with you; I will protect you wherever you go,’ the Lord whispers in Jacob’s ear.

Jacob’s observation upon awakening provides us with a fundamental spiritual truth, it seems to me.

‘Truly, the Lord is in this spot, although I did not know it!’

It’s interesting, isn’t it, that the Lectionary pairs this story with the Gospel reading from Matthew in which Jesus sets out to restore the official’s daughter to life, and—while on his way—cures the woman who’d been suffering from hemorrhages for twelve years.

I imagine that both the official and the cured woman could make the same confession that Jacob does: Even amidst the grief of death, even after suffering debilitating pain for a dozen years, it is possible—and perhaps necessary—for us to discover that the Lord is in this spot.

Yes, even in this spot: in a child who can’t seem to break the bonds of his heroin addiction; in a marriage that fails after 30 years; in a career that crumbles as collateral damage following a merger; in a cancer that has metastasized and cannot be cured.

As the stones pile up in our lives, Jesus invites us to find our soft spot in him. And more: Jesus asks us to be the soft spot for others. Perhaps not for every hurting person we encounter. But at least for some.

How do we dare to imagine that kind of grace at work in our lives? We are, after all, too weak…too sinful…too self-centered.

We can indeed dare it, simply because—as Jacob (and later, Ezekiel) discovered—the Lord can work wonders with stones:

‘I will give them a new heart and put a new spirit within them; I will remove the stony heart from their bodies, and replace it with a natural heart.’  (Ezekiel 11:19)

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4 thoughts on “Today’s find: Stoned

  1. Mike Seyle

    John, you gave me a wonderful gift when you sent this link. I’ve heard a person should sip a great wine; I’ve always guzzled. Or take small portions of delectable desserts. I cut large ones. True to form, when you sent your gift my first thought was to hurry; read all the posts. I’m so far behind. But these can’t be rushed. They don’t go down quickly. Rather, I find myself savoring what’s before me. You set a good table.

  2. Thanks for the kind words, Mike. And feel free to pass the link along, if you’re so inclined. New ‘followers’ are always welcome!

  3. Mark Dean, OMI

    John, thanks for this post. That line you quoted from the first reading (about the Lord being present even when it wasn’t realized at the time) reminded me of a song I heard many years ago which claimed: “Surely the presence of the Lord is in this place; I can feel his holy power and his grace… I can hear the rush of angel wings, I see glory on each face… surely, the presence of the Lord is in this place.” Ain’t that the truth!

    • One of my favorite songs, too, Mark. It’s one of the standards we sing during every Kairos Weekend at Menard. Believe me: That setting–inside a maximum security prison–adds a whole new layer of truth, beauty and power to the lyrics. The Lord IS present, even there. And we do indeed see His glory on each face. Amazing. Amazing grace!

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